Choose Your Founding Membership
Founding Monthly: $19/month
A live etiquette lesson and "Ask Jules" Q&A every month, printable Grace Guides, the replay library and member community. Your rate is locked in while you stay. Cancel anytime.
Founding Annual: $149/year
Best value. Everything in Monthly for a full year, about $12.42 a month (regularly $270). Includes the Holiday Grace Kit founding bonus.
Founding Circle VIP: $497/year
The full membership plus four private 30-minute sessions with Jules (one each quarter), priority Q&A and first invitations to in-person events. Only 10 seats.
Gift of Grace: $57
Give three months of The Elegance Society to a teen, a new grad or a friend starting something new. One payment, no renewal.
Monthly Etiquette Lesson Topics
A New Live Etiquette Lesson Every Month
Each month brings a new live etiquette lesson with Jules on Zoom, plus a printable Grace Guide on the same topic. Here is the year ahead:
- December: Holiday Grace, on hosting, being a gracious guest, gifts and thank-you notes
- January: Presence, on first impressions, introductions and remembering names
- February: The Art of Conversation, on small talk, graceful exits and reading a room
- March: Restaurant Confidence, on ordering, choosing wine, splitting the bill and tipping
- April: The Written Word, on thank-you notes, condolence notes and gracious emails
- May: Graduation and Wedding Season, on RSVPs, gifts and wedding guest etiquette
- June: Travel Etiquette and the Gracious Houseguest
- July: Summer Entertaining, on casual hosting and outdoor dining
- August: Everyday Civility, on difficult people and saying no gracefully
- September: Dress Codes Decoded, from black tie to business casual
- October: Digital Manners, on phones at the table, texting and video calls
- November: The Gracious Table, on table setting and table manners
Your Host
Meet Your Etiquette Coach, Jules Hirst
Jules Martinez Hirst is an etiquette expert and co-author of "Power of Civility." Based in Los Angeles, she teaches business, social and dining etiquette nationwide and has been interviewed or quoted by NBC Nightly News, ABC World News and the New York Times. Now she brings that guidance to you every month.
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